Why and how should we control our attachments in life?
What is the reason for anger and loss of discrimination? It is only attachment!
Yes, you may have an attachment for your wife and children. But keep it within limits.
Not only must you limit your attachment but limit its duration also. Your householder life is only till the age of fifty. By sixty years, you must enter Vanaprastha (the stage after the householder phase).
You should snap ties with wife and children and be free of all responsibilities. The age of seventy years is the time for complete renunciation (Sanyasa).
Instead of cultivating such sacrifice, men today refuse to renounce attachments till death. Only hell can result for such people.
Help your family and others to the extent possible. Discharge your duties towards everyone.
And remember that every person is independent, governed by their individual karma.
Everyone is responsible for themselves. Don’t cultivate attachment, which is the root cause of sorrow.
- Summer Showers, May 25, 1995
Do not attach yourselves too much with the world, for it is ever-changing fast and furiously.
Source: radiosai.org